Showing posts with label siblings. Show all posts
Showing posts with label siblings. Show all posts

Weekend Sleepovers and bedtime routines


Ever since the kids started going to a real school, our bedtime routine has crawled its way to the top of the priority list.  We used to put the kids to bed at an "aboutish" hour. It wasn't law. Merely a general suggestion. And it wasn't a big deal because our mornings were on our schedule (I really do miss some things about homeschooling). Now, with the amount of stimulation they have in a day, they absolutely need their beauty sleep and, more importantly, I'm just not into torturing teachers.

So our routine during the week starts with jammies, brushing teeth at 6:45 and by 7:00 we usually have the big kids settled so they can get to sleep by 7:30. The baby goes to sleep whenever she wants to because...


Leo, Elena and Roman all used to share a room. Leo and Elena had the bunk beds and Roman had his toddler bed. It was a great fit for the last year, but the downside was that Bridget was relegated to the pack-n-play for a year! She loved it, it didn't hurt her. And she ends up in my bed most nights anyway.

She sleeps anywhere:



But it really was time to move on. She's practically a grown-up!!


Wouldn't it be awesome if our favorite thing hung from our neck at all times so we could always have it within arms length??  Like chocolate. A glass of wine. Oooo, or a flask. Yes - get on that inventors!!

I told Jason that I wanted to have an option for guests when they come visit as opposed to getting another set of bunk-beds for the girls room. And omigosh did he DELIVER!!!


He put it all together in 2 days and picked up a gallon of antique white paint. I gave it two good coats and was done the next morning. It turned out so beautiful. Our biggest problem was that we don't have the money to buy a plush, big full-size mattress.


Enter Amazon: This is the Signature Sleep 8-Inch Memory Foam Mattress. It came delivered to our door in a big box. It was vacuum wrapped and rolled up. We unrolled it and 2 days later, we had a fully-inflated mattress.  Sweet huh?



So now our favorite new weekend routine is a sleepover in Elena's room. Personally, I don't think kids need their own room. We split them up so there is a boys' room and a girls' room. They get major life skills from learning how to share a space with a sibling. And we could never afford a 6 bedroom house so isn't that convenient ;)




We also decided to upgrade the bedding for the kids. Up until we had to stage the bedrooms to sell our old home, the kids were using our old college comforters. Long overdue my friends. The gift of "home decor" and "making things pretty" is so far removed from my skill-set that it is a bit of a joke among people who know me. I'm in on the joke though and do my part to perpetuate it! When our realtor came in to see our home ready to sell, she gave me a pity-smile and asked if I had any friends who liked to decorate. I was not surprised at all... I am "decorationally-challenged". New phrase

The Before (my handiwork)

The After: My friend came over to bail us out!!
(If you look closely, you'll see that I didn't even put the quilt on in the right direction. But I guess that just shows you how much I don't know about these things?!

I wanted to find something that was pretty for Elena's new bed though and stumbled on these funky and fun quilts on Amazon!

Greenland Quilt - Bohemian


I agonized over my decision on a quilt for entirely too long. But only because there are SO many other pretty ones!! My other three favorites were Nirvana, Clearwater, and Blooming Prairie. But since it was for Elena, I went with bold, colorful and funky!!

 
   

So in the end, we paid:

$179 for the mattress
$71 for the quilt set
$60 for the paint
$50 for the wood
Total: $360 - not too shabby!

And got a beautiful new bed. Now we just need all of you to come visit us!!  I hear Tennessee is beautiful this time of year...*wink*

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The reality of baby #4

First thing first:  THIS BABY IS A GIRL!!!!!!!   This so exciting for SO many reasons:
  • Jason and I convinced ourselves this was a boy since I was sick with the boys and had absolutely no morning sickness with Elena. This was SUCH a welcome surprise!
  • Now Leo's OCD will not go into overdrive. We have the proper order of boy, girl, boy, girl...and Leo declared happily, "Now I can marry to Elena and Roman can marry to the baby girl!"  Ahhhh, all is right with the world...
  • I always wondered if Elena would be my only girl. But now, not only do I get to enjoy another girl, but Elena is going to have a sister!!!
Now, onto the reality of a fourth pregnancy since we got married less than 7 years ago:



*DISCLAIMER: Jason and I are ecstatic that I am pregnant.  We are super excited to meet this baby and care for it forever.  The kids are beyond thrilled that they get a new sister.  And this baby has no idea how lucky she is to have three older siblings ready to spoil her and torture her for the rest of her life.


This post in no way reflects an attitude of apathy toward this new baby.  It's just real life.  Life with three other small kids and not enough hours in the day or mental energy to compare schedules before sonogram appointments are made or be creative with announcements.


How Jason found out I was pregnant:  
An early morning conversation on Gmail chat:
Friday, October 18, 2013 9:27 AM
Lisa Gale
there?
Jason Gale
whats up
Lisa Gale
remember when I said a couple weeks ago that my cycle was all wonky?
Jason Gale
?!?!?!?!?!?!
Lisa Gale
yup...
Jason Gale
late...or pregnant???
Lisa Gale
pregnant
Jason Gale
whaaaaatttttT!
yeahhhhh!
i think?
sorry?
congratulations?
pick one!

Jason promises me he will at least try to Skype for the birth...

And now: BRING ON THE PINK!!!!

Elena, Feb 2010

A special birthday coming up next

Warning: this is not a funny post.  But the pictures at the end are!!

Whenever October hits, I am always reminded of someone I never had the chance to meet: 

My brother Kevin

He was only 9 years old when he was hit by a truck and killed.  It was so sudden and tragic that I'm not really sure how my mom survived it.  Somehow she did.

A couple months ago, my Uncle sent me this adorable photo of Kevin as a baby.  He would have turned 43 years old next week.

(I think his chin and cheeks resemble Roman just a little!)

There is something very different about a family that has experienced a loss like this.  I think that a lot of people spend time worrying about life and death, especially parents.  But a family that can put a face and a name to tragedy, and a time, and an age...well, it is just different.  Whenever I meet a woman who tells me about all her grown children, I am always surprised to hear that they are all alive, and I am less surprised to hear if she has lost a child.  It should probably be the other way around??

My oldest brother Steve was 12 years old when Kevin died and my sister was 6.  I just can't imagine.  Whenever I see Roman and Leo playing together, I immediately think of Steve and Kevin.  The connection I draw isn't because I worry that something will happen to one of them.  I just think about the relationship my brothers must have had and how long they had spent every single day of their lives together.  I think of my own children and husband in a much more temporary way, always surprised that I get another day with them.  Especially in October around Kevin's birthday.  

The reason I started thinking about it so heavily this month was because the connection between Leo and Roman is so strong right now.  Now that Roman is so verbal, I know exactly how many times a day he thinks about Leo.  The first person Roman asks for when he wakes up is "Wo".  And when he goes to bed at night, he always asks where "Wo" is.  And they are only 5 years old and 20 month old!  


The other day I was working in the den with the door shut and Roman was trying to get in there to see me.  When he asked Jason, he just told him to leave Momma alone and go play.  So Roman went into the playroom and asked Leo, "Momma?  Momma?"  And Leo said, "Okay little buddy!  C'mon!" and the next thing I knew the door to the den flew open.  


Leo takes his role as big brother very seriously.  He even attached a baby doll stroller to the back of his bike so Roman can ride around the house.  







I don't mean for this to be a dark or creepy post (even though it it turning into one...especially with all the creepy Nursery Rhymes my kids are singing right now).  It is just something that I think about all the time.  And I don't really think about it with Elena - mostly just Leo and Roman.  And even though these children don't belong to me, they belong to God, I really hope He doesn't have any plans to take any of them early.  I think I'll probably view their 10th birthdays as major milestones.  

I am fairly sure that this is a result of Kevin's death (a person I never even met!), but I wonder if other people see their kids the same way because we are all so worried about something happening to our children??

Leo's 5th Birthday!!

I went a little overboard for Leo's 5th birthday party.  Now that his cousins live thousands of miles away, we can't have an impromptu party anymore.  It has to be planned, which is bad news for me.  Once the wheels start grinding in my head, I tend to over-do it a little.  Well...a lot...

Welcome to the pirate ship:







I made the Pioneer Woman Sheet Cake for the first time and another 1/2 recipe for the cupcakes.  It was really amazing!!  I found the idea for the cupcakes on this blog: http://greeneacreshobbyfarm.blogspot.com/2012/03/pirate-cupcakes-and-treasure-hunt.html.  The frosting was this recipe.  I just added a little cocoa powder to a little of it to decorate.




I had the most fun making the decoration over the chandelier in our kitchen.  I just tore up some of the old t-shirt scraps from the t-shirt bags I make for the local Farmer's Market!  I also hung 5 LED flickering candles from the chandelier for added effect.


For our activity, I made a treasure hunt/scavenger hunt for the kids to start the party off right!


Treasure Map #1.  None of them know how to hold it or which direction to go.  After about a minute we just yelled for them to go to the pergola :)


Same story with Treasure Map #2.  They held the map upside down and were completely lost.  TO THE LOGS!!


This one was easy.  I drew a pretty convincing fort :)



My fence was not as well drawn so we had to yell out instructions again.



FOUND IT!





It was such a rockin party.  I was sad to take down the decorations!!


5 years old.  I love the age of discovery he is in now.  The rational part of his brain is sputtering to a start and he is my best little bud now.  We chat about life, death, toys, friends, family, etc.   


He is a busy little dude with lots of sweetness and tons of energy.  He is all business all the time and loves to do goal-oriented work.


 




This birthday year was the year of the Lego:



We put him in swim lessons this year and I am SO GLAD I'm not the one teaching him.  He will cry hysterically when the teacher lets him go underwater.  But he forgives her easily and moves on.  There is no way he would do that with me! 


He also did VBS this year and is still performing all the hand motions to Kingdom Rock in his room every day.





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